![]() ![]() "I would recommend applying lubricant to both the toy and to your anus." “It’s imperative that you have some lube on hand to facilitate a smooth experience," says clinical sexologist Megan Stubbs. Plus, your butt simply doesn't self-lubricate. RELATED: 10 Women Reveal Their Go-To Vibrator for Amazing Orgasms Why lube and why silicone-based? Not to over-hype it, but in my experience lube can take your sex life from a Charlotte to a Samantha in 10 seconds flat-or however long it takes to dig through your night table and flip open the top of the bottle. Then, I stocked up on more of my favorite silicone-based lube. While I usually prefer sex toys made of glass or steel because I like the heft, Sinclair says silicone products are better for newbies, so I bought an “ anal training kit” complete with three silicone butt plugs at increasing sizes (three, four, and five inches) and also a vibrating butt plug made of silicone (because I’m an overachiever). I decided now wasn’t a time to be stingy. ![]() So when Alicia Sinclair, sex educator and CEO of b-Vibe, told me, “Women often report that their ability to enjoy anal sex and climax through anal stimulation is less affected by medication,” I decided to bring a second hole into my solo-time.Īlso, at risk of sounding like a size queen, all of my dildos are longer than five inches, which TBH intimidated the eff out of my peach. My lifelong, not-a-medical-professional hypothesis for why I have a hard time coming is that in high school before I was sexually active I was on anti-anxiety medication for few months-meds that have a rep for messing with libido and sexual function. RELATED: The 8 Best Sex Toys to Use When You're Masturbating Honestly, I assumed that after orgasming with my partner, I’d be able to get there again on my own, but still nope. And it happened a handful of times after that initial, um, release.īut now that I’m single again, I’m about as O-free as, well, a Disney movie. My first orgasm ever happened a few months ago during vaginal penetration with my partner of 18 months. You’re probably wondering if I’ve ever orgasmed with a partner. But while I’m able to make myself feel good, I’ve never been able to take myself to the O-zone. I’ve masturbated with my hand, the cult-favorite Magic Wand, a crystal dildo, the clit-stimulating Satisfyer Pro Plus Vibration, a G-spot vibrator (or four), and while watching porn and reading erotica. I’m a 25-year-old sex and wellness writer with a hearty (nay, adventurous) collection of sex toys, and yet I’ve never been able to make myself orgasm. ![]()
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